There is no time to mope, to get depressed, to dwell on past things. There is barely time to tinkle!
This is a big secret to life, which took me some years to figure out for myself.
Find out what works for you, and use it to better your life. Be true to yourself. Don't try to fit in or be what you think other people want you to be. Be YOU, like YOU, be proud of who YOU are!
It is understood that what makes me tick is not what makes you tick. So discover yourself and bloom!