Marcy's Choice in The Last Green Valley, a National Heritage Corridor!
Located in northeast CT, Putnam is a gem of a place to live, work, visit!
Putnamania is also my "happy place".
Putnamania will catch you, and you too will become a Putnamaniac before long.
Come and visit! Stay a while!
Wikipedia says: A New Year's resolution is a commitment that a person makes to one or more personal goals, projects, or the reforming of a habit.
A key element to a New Year's resolution that sets it apart from other
resolutions is that it is made in anticipation of the New Year and new
beginnings. People committing themselves to a New Year's resolution
generally plan to do so for the whole following year. This lifestyle change is generally interpreted as advantageous.
Some of the most popular New Year's resolutions are:
Drink Less Alcohol Eat Healthy Food Get a Better Education Get a Better Job Get Fit Lose Weight Quit Smoking Save Money
Volunteer to Help Others
Most people successful in their lives that I know say:
*Make goals reasonable, so that you will keep at the until you reach them. Instead of I am going to lose 50 lbs by Feb 1st, say I am going to exercise 4 times a week, and only have one sugary treat per week).
*Set them often. Once you have successfully signed up to volunteer at a place you are passionate about, set your goal to spend 15 hours a month there.
*Set new goals, or revisit goals that might have slipped away from your attention. Remember when you used to do crunches during the commercials of nightly tv time...but now you no longer do it. Get back into that habit!
Keeping a dry erase board on your fridge is a great place to see your current goals, and once they are in your repertoire, a great place to see your newest goal(s).
Mine change often. It keeps me on my toes and working hard. Right now I have two goals listed: 1) learn to play the piano again, 2) jog more ~ 1000 miles for 2013, which is about 20 miles per week. Broken down like that, I know I can do it, and I can take just one week at a time...
Past goals have been such things as take a little time every day to listen to and enjoy music more often. It worked! However, when that starts to slip away, I will re-goal it!
Like most folks, I tend to take things that are so nearby for granted.
Growing up in RI, I was not that far away from Newport and the mansions. However, I only went to them once, and that was for my prom! Go figure... but I think that is typical behavior that most of us exhibit.
Since I've moved to Putnam, I live very close to the Taylor Brooke Winery, yet I'd never been there until very recently. It was gorgeous and mind you this is the less than stellar time of year... I will be certain to frequent this local treasure, and hope to find many more treasures in my hunting.
Keep hunting yourself! I hope you find you treasures and maybe a bottle of wine will be at the end of the rainbow, like at Taylor Brooke Winery!
I am a Putnamaniac that will try not to take my local treasures for granted!
As the fun holiday seasons wind down and the not so fun winter season cranks it up a notch, I work pretty hard at finding stuff to do and ways to keep my spirits lifted until the warmer, brighter days come round our way again.
Luckily I live in Putnamania where fun is plentiful!
Live music and theater are part of Putnam, and tomorrow night, Friday, December 28, is no different.
Bella's Bistro hosts live music often, and Sister's Keeper will be playing there tomorrow night, starting at 8:45pm. I have had the pleasure to have heard this group before ~ 3 talented and beautiful sisters ~ and although some may tease me that the starting time is closing in on my bedtime, I will be there to listen to a little bright music to warm my heart.
If you live anywhere near Putnam, there is no excuse for you to not have fun as often as possible. It is within our grasp in any number of locations and in all assorted varieties. Reach out and grab it!
After spending most of the first 51 years of my life putting off many opportunities for fun for some other task, while thinking "I am not missing out on much", I have discovered FUN in the last year, and I will admit, I was missing out!!! I will not miss out on FUN ever again!
See you at Bella's tomorrow night to hear some songs to warm your winter!
I am a Putnamaniac that will be warming up my winter's night at Bella's Bistro with some good music with Sister's Keeper!
I went last year for the first time and enjoyed the heck out of it! There were all sorts of stuff for kids (of all ages) to do! Very family friendly, very community minded, which is probably why there were so many people there. I stopped in to hear one of the musical offerings, The Alston Sisters, and they were fabulous! I am hoping to catch Yankee Dogs this year. (One of the Yankee Dogs is The Last Green Valley's Chief Ranger Bill).
People are spending money like they have money trees growing in their back yards!
Everything at this time of year can get overwhelming... if you let it overtake you... and if you forget what is truly important to you.
Make it a point to remember how you felt as you sat in church with your friend and watched her kids up on stage performing in their Christmas pageant.
Listen to your memories in your heart of how great it was to see doors opened to you and faces lit up as a group of friends sang Christmas carols to them.
Think about how you felt when you heard of the tragic moments at the Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, CT and that you swore you would hug your loved ones tighter every time you saw them.
Remember when it dawned on you that you had the best mother on the planet.
Although giving gifts at Christmastime is something that most do, try to give the gift of time and love every day of your life. Something as simple as opening a door for someone, with a big smile on your face and a bit of a flourish & a curtsey as they enter before you is a great gift. Bring a big cardboard box over to kids house, and play rocket ship with them. This is the stuff that makes us great humans!
I challenge you to do something as often as you can as the years pass. I know you can do it! I try my best every day!
I am a Putnamaniac that loves gifting all year long!
The anticipation of things (at least anticipation of good things) is as much fun as when the time actually arrives to do "the thing"!
Today I am eagerly looking forward to going Christmas caroling tonight with some friends that actually invited me along (brave souls they ~ if they only knew how I sing)!
The story of this group of rouge carolers began to unfold years ago, but last year was my first introduction to their night of good will...
Imagine a cold Sunday night just before Christmas in Putnamania. I'd just gotten home from the Christmas show at the Bradley Playhouse, and had turned on the Patriots game....
Then... a knock on the door.... upon opening it up, there arose such a clatter ~ a band of rogue carolers began to belt out some holiday cheer! You can imagine my surprise, my joy, my thrill of being chosen to be visited! (and so much better than Scrooge's visitors)! I felt like the Christmas Queen! They sang, I smiled from ear to ear, and want to cry every time I remember those moments.
So, tonight, I will join the band of rouge carolers! I CAN'T WAIT!!! If I can make someone as surprised and as special as I felt last year, that is a successful Christmas wish come true!
Carol on Putnamaniacs everywhere!
I am a Putnamaniac that loves the anticipation of good things!
Follow the Fifty was an amazing bunch of women that inspired us all in Northeast CT this past year.
From the Follow the Fifty website: Follow the Fifty: Models of Heart Health is an energetic and empowering women’s heart health initiative that was funded through The Heart Truth® Community Action Program,
a women’s heart health awareness and action campaign that warns women
about heart disease and provides tools to help them take action against
its risk factors. Originally designed to recruit fifty women from
northeastern Connecticut to serve as models of heart health, the
initiative was expanded due to the overwhelming response to the model
recruitment campaign. 183 women were selected on February 29, 2012, to
lead others in Connecticut’s “Quiet Corner” on a remarkable journey of
The focus of Follow the Fifty is not on visual outcomes, it’s more about
the importance of lowering the risk factors that are impacting your
health on the inside. The emphasis here is on being a successful ‘role’
model rather than a ‘runway’ model!”
You could not help but follow them. They were everywhere!!!!! They were walking together, biking together, jogging together, racing together, at community events together. I found them very inspirational. Every time I wear my "Ask me why I follow the fifty" t-shirt, I got asked, and I told why!
This afternoon as I was at my friend's house, I spotted the Follow the Fifty heart logo in the project manager's driveway, so I stopped and took a picture of it.
This same heart logo was recently painted on the roads in town, in many spots. It sure does help me to remember to take care of myself and my heart health.
It is very easy to be a part of this community if you choose to do so. The folks here make it easy! We are in it together. Good stuff.
I am a Putnamaniac that will Follow the Fifty and what they taught us all...forever!
I have known some tough nuts in my day....yup, they act all tough on the outside.
They have to.
Many times it is what is expected of them, by either themselves or by those whom they are surrounded by.
One friend in particular that I grew up with was stereotyped in this fashion. Eventually he just acted like he thought people expected him to act. Deep down inside, he was a very nice guy... but only a few people actually knew this. I was one of the lucky ones. I knew it.
Maybe it is a guy thing... since it is usually guys that shellac on this tough exterior.
If that is the case, I am so glad I am a girl! Girls don't have to act all tough, and the tough guys can show their softer side to me. I am so lucky to see that side of so many great guys!
Tonight while out to dinner with my little seven year old friend, who is a boy, not to be confused with a boyfriend as he always clearly explains to me, I asked him for some examples of a tough exterior and a soft interior. He came up with melons, elephants and a few more great examples.
Why am I thinking about this subject tonight?
It is because I work with a group of awesome, very tough guys. Ironworkers. They have to be tough as nails to do what they do. Thank goodness they are that tough. But I get to see their sweet, kind, and generous side, too. I get the best of both worlds.
Today I told them all that I love them all. And I do. Of course, I also admitted to being fickle, but when you are surrounded by a bunch of unique, tough, sweet guys, you can easily become fickle!
I am a Putnamaniac that loves the tough exteriors and soft interiors of her coworkers!
Then I hope to fit in a visit to the Taylor Brooke Winery, which is just up the road from me in the neighboring town of Woodstock. I have never actually visited the place, although I have surely tasted their wines!
Sunday will include my joining in with a bunch of carolers, who visited and caroled to me last year! With my pipes, I am hoping the listeners will perhaps have enjoyed a glass or two of wine themselves. I sound pretty good if you've had a glass of wine!
So, get out and do something fun in your free time. I know I will!
I am a Putnamaniac that is going to visit the Taylor Brooke Winery this weekend!
Beautiful ride home tonight, from Salt Pond, Narragansett, RI to Putnam, CT.
From the sparkling lights across the pond at a marina, to the outlined tractor in Exeter, to the snowman in Greene, to the church in Moosup Valley with the star glowing atop its peak, to the Killingly candy canes, to the multi-colored park in Putnam, it was all beautiful. Every single beautiful, sparkling and twinkling light
Treasure every moment.
I am a Putnamaniac that loves to see the beauty of the season in all the lights as I travel over the river and through the woods.
Everyone, including me, has a lot to say today, and I am sure lots of folks are holding back on what they are saying.
I know that everyone will hug their loved ones a bit tighter today as well.
There was a girl I used to work with, Jennie Jav, and she had the best smile in the world. The room lit up when she smiled, which was often. It always improved my mood to be on the receiving end of that smile. I think of it whenever I need a boost of positivity, and I try to pass that smile on to someone that looks like they might need it.
This morning I passed on a smile and a hug on the River Trail during my jog. The recipient was an older woman out there shuffle-jogging ahead of me. I kept seeing her stop, bend over, pick up a piece of litter, put it in her bag, and then continue on. I passed her, and on my way back towards her, I stopped her and told her I needed to give her a hug. "Why?" she asked.... "Because you are clearly a great person" I replied to her dear glowing face. She told me she gets about 3-4 bags of litter each day on her walk... And then we were both off on our separate ways.
Pass on a smile and hug it up. It can't hurt to acknowledge a good soul on this earth today.
I am a Putnamaniac that hopes there are enough hugs and smiles to go around where they are needed most
My family has no kids... not that they are all grown up, but neither myself, nor my sister or brother ever had kids.
We are all ok with this! We have friends and relatives that "share" kids with us all the time!
Christmas is different with all grownups and no kids around though.. and sometimes because of where we live, we can't even all be together for Christmas day... but that is ok, too. We have learned to have fun when we can be together!
Christmas gift giving is also something that does not seem quite so vital to us. Perhaps since each of us have pretty much all the material things we could ever need or want. Perhaps it is because if we see something that someone would like in June, we give it to them in June!
My family is also very generous with what we have ever had, and some times that was not much at all. My mother is generous beyond belief in her time and spirit, my uncle is also generous and tries to teach others to learn to take care of themselves properly, my brother and sister are also very generous.
So, as we have done in past years, we are not exchanging gifts this year, but taking the money we would have otherwise spent on gifts to each other, and donating it. My choice is the Daily Bread Food Bank here in Putnam. They run solely on donations. Some day I might need some help, so I am paying it forward, backward, and sideways!
If you don't agree with making donations to causes, you may want to start a savings account or mutual fund for family members, and donate $XX.xx per month. It will add up, and then they can get something they want with it someday!
I am a Putnamaniac that is giving a donation as a nontraditional gift to my family this year!
I've always wanted to get together a nice, fun, positive team of Putnamaniacs... but with being so busy all the time, I have never taken the time to do it.
The time is now.
Since Putnamania is pretty much to make me focus on something positive and good every day, I may be a team all by myself most of the time, but that is just fine!
However, you are always welcome to join in on any event!
Monthly I will be organizing a simple event, ranging from things like a January hot chocolate hike at the West Thompson Dam, to making Thank You cards to give out to veterans in May at the Memorial Day celebration, to running/jogging/walking at such great local races like the O'Putnam 5k and the Deary Walk/Race/Ride. All events will be family and community friendly, and will not take up too much of your time.
You can find out about these events, as well as other things going on around Putnam on the Putnamaniac Activity Calendar here. (I will try to remember to add it to the bottom of every blog). I will also do a blog before each of the monthly Putnamania activities, so you can see if you'd like to join in the fun!
I just can never get over the great people I have met in my life. GREAT PEOPLE!!!
There was a girl on my high school basketball team. She was a little spitfire, who never gave up, believed in team effort (in many other sports as well as basketball), and was an all around good person.
Turns out she married a guy we went to school with, and he was cut from the same cloth. The only difference is she was cut a size XS and he was size XL. They had a few sized XL sons.
This is what she posted on facebook today about one of her fine offspring:
(Hold onto your horses, because this is awesome....):
son goes to college full time, works part time. He's pockets are not
weighted down with money, but his heart is full of compassion and
appreciation for deserving people. He works at the local pizza shop.
Today a marine and his little girl came in for lunch. Wes went over to
thank him for his service to our country and told him he would like to
pay for their meals in appreciation for his sacrifice. The marine said
Wes made his day. My heart is full of pride."
This makes me so happy for not only my friend, her husband, her son, that marine and his little daughter, but for all of mankind. How can you ever beat a story like this? If you look around in your life, I hope you will be happily astonished in the same fashion.
You've been so kind and generous, I don't know how you keep on giving
For your kindness I'm in debt to you
For your selflessness, my admiration
For everything you've done, you know I'm bound, I'm bound to
thank you for it....
Sometimes you just don't feel like getting out and doing something.
I've had those moments.
BUT, I force myself out the door, and it always feels a lot better to move than not to move.
Something that works great for me is to sign up for things/events ahead of time. That way I have no excuses not to go. (Otherwise I might spend every spare minute doing something silly like cleaning an already spotless home)!
This morning I attended a nice 5 mile hike in the Goodwin Forest, around Pine Acres Pond. I found out about the hike because I am on their email list. Otherwise I might not have had such a great morning!
So make yourself get off your duff and move it! You are sure to have fun, just like you did when you were a kid. Wash away the work week in just a few breaths of fresh air! Halleluiah! I am a Putnamaniac that always has more fun getting out than sitting around!
Located in Putnam, which is not a big place, so it is easy to find, The Complex is a small and intimate venue that packs a big punch.
This outfit does not do the easy nor traditional shows. They are very ambitious and you will always be stunned by the shows, the sets, the music, the singing, dancing... well, you get the picture.
Here is what is coming up in 2013:
If you think you are not a fan of local theater, give it a try! I have heard from all sorts of people who "dragged" someone along with them to a show, and now those protesters have become big fans themselves.
Everyone has a hard to shop for person. They have everything, or they don't need anything. Socks are just not going to cut it.
If you live anywhere near Putnam, including RI and MA since Putnam is just a hop, skip, and jump from many of you, tickets to The Bradley Theater are a great idea! The entertainment is outstanding and you do not have to fight the traffic of going into a big city. Parking, dining and the theater are all within walking distance. Shows are on Friday and Saturday nights, or Sunday afternoons.
I am not going to lie to you... I buy myself a season ticket every year, always look forward to every show and have never been disappointed in the performances, stage, props, music... Always top shelf.
When I arrived home from work tonight, I had an EXQUISITE surprise in the mail!
One of Santa's Elves, a little pint of peanuts I grew up with, otherwise known as Jackie, made me a stocking!!! My very own home made stocking! Check it out!!!!! Both sides are different, and the interior is yet another fabric!!! I love the differences, and it is so perfect that there are cupcakes on one side, since I love to bake!!! It is so festive ~ the most festive stocking ever!!!
Elf Jackie is such an impressive stitcher, and she does not even know how awesome her creations are. I covet her imagination, heart, and creations all the time ~ and I really covet her skills, since I can't sew to save my life. A little bit of Jackie lives on in each of her pieces. Thank goodness!
So, I am amazed, awed, and greatful that Santa has filled my stocking, with pure love and generosity, even before Christmas this year.
I hope your stocking is filled with as much love as mine, and I hope to share some love myself with others, when they least expect it.
Love life, my friends. Pass it on.
I am a Putnamaniac that has her new Christmas stocking ~ and her heart ~ filled with very much love!
The first impression we have of others is generally what we see as we approach them.
However, take a moment to look a bit deeper.
Judging is big responsibility. If you want to judge, should you not have all the facts?
Does this person look you in the eye when they speak to you?
Are they responsible beings? Do they care for their children and raise them with values so they know right from wrong?
Do they have a job? Do they pay their bills? Do they care for more than just themselves? How do they treat others day in and day out?
I ask these questions because I am sometimes shocked at comments people will make about others that they do not know nor have ever met, all based on nothing but what a person looks like. How can that sort of opinion be of any value? Kind of like they are wasting their breath if you ask me.
As I googled looking for an image for "Don't judge a book by its cover", a picture of Susan Boyle was one of the first to appear.
Not that big power ball jackpot from the other night, nor even a dollar from a scratch off ticket, but the lottery in life.
My best bud always told me I had a bad case of wanderlust, since I moved almost constantly since I was old enough to be out on my own.
Then after a certain point I was able to buy houses to live in instead of renting. Folks thought I would settle in, yet I still continued to sell, move, and buy again somewhere else, living in lots of places over the years.
Well, I think I am settled in. I have found the community and place that I had been searching for all of those years right here in Northeast CT.
Words can't describe what it is to me and to so many others.It is simply like no other place on earth.
I am pretty happy that I never stopped looking and finally won the lottery that I was looking for over all those years. I suggest that you never give up on what you are looking for either, because you will eventually find it!
I am a Putnamaniac that won the lottery by finding a community like Northeast CT!